How to Identify Your Core Values

By Nowshenzhen · March 2, 2026 · 2 min read · 👁 200 views

In a world that is often loud and confusing, many of us feel like we are drifting without a map. We have the external success, but we crave a deeper sense of Inner Peace. The missing piece is often a lack of clarity regarding our Core Values, the internal compass that serves as your fuel for growth and the key to making clear decisions in any storm.

After 10 years of studying with top masters and exploring ancient wisdom, I have found one powerful method that works for everyone. It doesn’t require complex technology; it starts simply with a pen, paper, and a moment of silence.

The Philosophy of Connection

Healthy and successful people think in connections, not separations. It is not a choice of "Money OR Love," but a question of "How can I have both?" By identifying your values, you stop seeing your life as a series of separate events and begin to see the beautiful, hidden patterns that define your soul.

Step 1: Mapping Your Energy Source

Take a piece of paper and draw two lines to create three distinct columns.

And then write the titles for each column as follows:

Column 1: The Activity. Write down 20 things you love that give you energy. It can be as small as your morning cup of tea in silence or as big as traveling the world with a best friend.

Column 2: The Energy Score. Rate each activity from 1 to 10 based on how much energy it truly gives you - This is the secret, your values, passions, motivations, GIVE YOU ENERGY, they don’t drain energy

Column 3: The Feeling & Setting. Record the feeling the activity provides (Peace, Excitement, Connection) and whether you prefer to do it alone or with others.

This step alone will reveal powerful patterns about what truly fulfills you.

Step 2: Decoding the Hidden Patterns

Once your list is complete, look for the repeating words in the "Feeling" column. Words like Peace, Freedom, Growth, or Connection will likely appear again and again.

These are not coincidences; they are direct hints from your soul. These repeating words are your Core Values. In the middle of any storm, you can find peace by remembering who you are and what is truly important to you.

Let’s Create Together

I invite you to take 15 minutes today to complete this exercise. Find your three most repeated words and share them with our community. When we align our lives with our values, we stop the burnout and begin to Create From Love.

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If you are a professional woman ready to move from stress to Emotional Freedom, I am here to guide you.

Angelo Cast Mental Health Mentor & Meditation Composer

March 2, 2026

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